What to wear
Occasions
Every guide settles one occasion completely — what to wear, what to skip, and why. Read it once, weeks early.
53 live guides


What to Wear to a Funeral: Black, Charcoal, or Navy
Charcoal and navy wool do more work than a shiny black costume. Religious rooms, graveside grass, and jewelry each have their own rules.
8 min · what to wear to a funeral
What to Wear to a Job Interview, by Industry
One notch above the people already in the building. Finance still wants a suit. A startup does not. Do not buy the outfit that morning.
8 min · what to wear to a job interview
What to Wear to Court as a Defendant, Witness, or Observer
Mute colors, no logos, closed shoes, a belt that will not set off the magnetometer. Defendants should be the quietest people in the room.
7 min · what to wear to court
What to Wear on a First Date: Walk, Drinks, or Dinner
Dress for the actual plan. Layers you can peel, shoes you can walk six blocks in, and one spray of scent — not a cloud.
7 min · what to wear on a first date
What to Wear to a Beach Wedding Without Looking Like the Bride
Linen and voile, not clinging viscose. A wedge or an ankle-strap sandal, not a stiletto. Mid-saturation color. A wrap for the wind. No white.
8 min · what to wear to a beach wedding
What to Wear on a Long Flight (and Still Look Like a Person on Landing)
Merino next to skin, compression under dark trousers, shoes that come off and go back on at immigration. Land looking like you meant to arrive.
8 min · what to wear on a long flightAll occasions guides
- What to Wear to a Funeral: Black, Charcoal, or Navy8 min
- What to Wear to a Wedding as a Guest, by Dress Code9 min
- What to Wear to a Job Interview, by Industry8 min
- What to Wear to Court as a Defendant, Witness, or Observer7 min
- What to Wear on a First Date: Walk, Drinks, or Dinner7 min
- What to Wear to a Beach Wedding Without Looking Like the Bride8 min
- What to Wear on a Long Flight (and Still Look Like a Person on Landing)8 min
- What to Wear When Meeting the Parents7 min
- What to Wear to Church (Any Denomination You Are Visiting)7 min
- What to Wear to a Baby Shower6 min
- What to Wear to a Christmas Party (Office, Family, Cocktail)7 min
- Business Casual for People Who Hate Dressing Up7 min
- What to Wear to a Concert: Symphony, Club, or Festival6 min
- What to Wear on a First Date in Winter: The Coat Is the Outfit6 min
- What to Wear to a Graduation When You Are Not the Graduate6 min
- What to Wear to a Bridal Shower: Not White, Not Cocktail-Sexy6 min
- What to Wear to an Engagement Party: One Notch Under the Wedding6 min
- What to Wear to a Rehearsal Dinner6 min
- What to Wear to a Black-Tie-Optional Wedding6 min
- What to Wear to a Cocktail-Attire Wedding (Cocktail Is Not a Mini)6 min
- What to Wear to a Destination Wedding Without Arriving Wrinkled6 min
- What to Wear to a Winter Wedding6 min
- What to Wear to Thanksgiving Dinner6 min
- What to Wear to a New Year's Eve Party: Sequins versus Navy6 min
- What to Wear to the Office Holiday Party6 min
- What to Wear to a Baptism6 min
- What to Wear to a Bar Mitzvah6 min
- What to Wear to a Wake or Visitation6 min
- What to Wear to a Gallery Opening: Black Without Trying6 min
- What to Wear to the Theatre6 min
- What to Wear to a Rooftop Bar6 min
- What to Wear to Brunch6 min
- What to Wear on a First Date in Summer6 min
- What to Wear to a Garden Party6 min
- What to Wear to a Housewarming6 min
- What to Wear to a School Open House6 min
- What to Wear to a Video Interview6 min
- What to Wear to Jury Duty6 min
- What to Wear to a Christening6 min
- What to Wear to a Retirement Party6 min
- What to Wear Hiking and Then to Dinner6 min
- What to Wear to a Wine Tasting6 min
- What to Wear to a Networking Event6 min
- What to Wear on a Second Date6 min
- What to Wear to a Summer Wedding as a Guest6 min
- What to Wear to a Funeral in Summer6 min
- What to Wear to a Wedding in a Church6 min
- What to Wear to a Courthouse Wedding6 min
- What to Wear to Prom as a Chaperone6 min
- What to Wear to Easter Service6 min
- What to Wear to a Funeral as a Pallbearer6 min
- What to Wear to a Concert in Winter: Coat Check vs Standing Room6 min
- What to Wear to a Winery: Tasting Room vs Vineyard Photo6 min
